Today is the World Cancer Day
In the last four decades as a “Cancer Surgeon’,
I repeatedly saw the remarkable strength and resilience in many women in the fight against cancer.
In fact women are genetically stronger.The large X chromosome (XX) obviuosly holds more genetic punch that the puny Y ( XY)of men.
There is a purpose as they bear the burden of the maternal duties like child bearing, child rearing and with all that the modern women work harder and be competitive in jobs.
They are better prime ministers too.
Now for facing the challenge of “Cancer’.
I have seen some remarkable examples of physical and inner strength in dealing with Cancer. ( all names changed)
Sujatha had ovarian cancer stage 3. Ovarian cancer responds to chemotherapy well. But…
Chemotherapy has its distressing side effect of hair loss. For a lady, that is a social and physical trauma. But Sujatha persisted.
“I will WIN Dr J” she declared and went through the chemo with a smile and then surgery and again chemo. Total six cycles !
One would expect some depression to set in . But she was chirpy throughout.
Covid pandemic came and her physical visits became few till this year.
Suddenly, I see a smart lady, with glorious hair, bring a box ! “Is it Sujatha?? “
“Yes, How do you like my new look “.
“Fab ! I told you that hair will come back but you have done some magic !”
“I brought this present for you. These beauty products are all made my me using natural ingredients. Please ask your wife to try”
The products are amazing.
I felt so good and realised that attitude is every thing and women have the grit and mental strength to face odds.
I have seen it in Neeraja and feel humbled.
TEN surgeries and Chemo cycles — one would expect someone to lose heart
Not Neeraja
“Doc are you going to operate for the 5th time. “You are not tired of cutting me up ??”
“As long the tumour recurs and is localised, may be…….” ( e have limited options for sarcoma)
“When are you coming home and I will cook a great dinner with my own recipes?”
She cooks and blogs and tweets and is always smiling. Such is her moral strength.
We complain about small inconveniences. The traffic is bad, this is not done and so on.
But these ladies with their courage to face the adversity are the motivation for us to keep doing our work.
I pray for them !